Sunday, March 4, 2018

Apa yang anak mama si selective mutism hadapi


Bila diteliti semula semasa dia membesar, dia ialah anak yang sensitif, mudah frustrated, mudah melt down. Tantrum dah jadi makanan kami. Semasa tahun pertama kindy, mungkin salah mama tak beritahu atau praktis ke tadika. Tadika hanya berlaku tiba2. Sepanjang 4 tahun mama yang jaga, tiba2 masuk tadika. Adakan separation anxiety puncanya? Dia cope dengan situasi (perubahan) itu dengan berdiam diri dan tidak bercakap. Ada juga rakan berpendapat keadaan bertambah buruk apabila kami berpindah ke tempat baru. 

Kami tak tahu apa sebenarnya yang terjadi yang membuatkan anxiety dia berkembang secara progress ke tahap fobia (full blown phobia). Dia sangat aware/sensitif yang keadaan ini ialah satu masalah dan tidak normal. Yang dia berbeza daripada rakan sebaya. Hal ini membuatkan tahap anxiety dia semakin tinggi, sukar dikawal membuatkan dia 'switch off' di sekolah. 
Mungkin ada rakan sebaya lain yang membuli di sekolah bukan secara fizikal tetapi dengan menggunakan verbal.
Kami tak dapat mengawal apa yang berlaku di sekolah. Kami juga tak dapat melindungi dia di sana.
Dia juga tidak dapat melindungi diri sendiri.

Daripada memaksa dia menghadapi fobianya setiap hari seperti saranan pakar, di sini, kami berpendapat adalah lebih baik untuk memberikan ketenangan kepadanya.

Bukan mengelakkan/lari dari dunia 'World of Stress' tapi kami percaya homeschool boleh membuatkan dia membina semula keyakinan diri secara natural dan berperingkat-peringkat serta berupaya meransang semula perasaan ingin tahu (curiosity) seterusnya dapat menembusi ke dunia 'World of Possibilities'

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